It’s first Monday of the Month and I thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity to join other Christians sharing thoughts how God has touched their marriage. This is my second time in Marriage Mondays and I felt so blessed to join to monthly meme.
The topic for this month’s Marriage Monday is “Being the Right Person”. The host is Christine of Fruit in Season. As I read through her post on this, I was truly blessed. Here’s a portion of what she wrote:
“If we want to make our marriages better, we need to focus on becoming the right person, instead of worrying whether or not the person we’re with is the right person for us. Especially in a Christian marriage, which is meant to be a garden where selflessness and servant-mindedness take root, we should bloom and prosper by continuing to work toward being the person that will most bless, complete, and encourage the one we’ve chosen. And as we all know from our own observations, the grass is actually greener where it is watered.*
Success in marriage isn’t finding the right person,it’s being the right person; I strongly agree with this statement. In fact, this has always been my prayer to God; to be the right person for my husband. I am not perfect but I always strive to become a blessing to my husband. I submit to what he wants and I always understand him when situation requires me. I always find ways to please him in all aspect in my life. Of course, I can’t be the right person without God working in me and in our marriage.